August 2018

Debbie Buss - Never FEAR the DARK

Is life passing you by?

Hello I'm Debbie Buss. I am an Intuitive Healer and Spiritual Coach. My passion is working with women, helping them to get back into their forgotten bodies.

*Warning: This column contains strong language and adult content!

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Never FEAR the DARK


“Never be afraid of the dark, the light of the moon is always with you!”

This was one of the many stories my grandmother told me, when I would be ready for bed, armed with my many Teddy bears and Barbie dolls; scared to go to sleep, as this was when the visions would come, and the very real and vivid, scary images would appear.

As a child I was told I had an active imagination. I would often be found talking to the many fairies and pixies in my grandmother’s garden, my parents quick to quash my fantasies, but my grandmother would just smile and wink, because deep down she knew that what I saw was very real.

Growing up I’ve hidden my gift to communicate with animals and angels and the many guides I’ve been blessed with to cross my path, only to find a kindred spirit who felt the same way, when I would proceed to talk their ears off, someone to believe me, or, if they didn’t, they definitely humoured me!

Have you ever hidden a gift or talent you have been afraid to shine, fearful of being judged?

Those shadows tend to creep up on you. And if you are not living your life purpose, or in effect, using a God-given talent that you were born to share, they will start to chip away.

You may feel depressed, stuck, as if something is missing from your life. Some people are so conditioned to believe the stories they have been told by their parents, teachers and society. They possess a gift that they are not aware of and they were born to use! My life purpose is to teach about the power of love - a Warrioress of Love!! Easy right?!

This has been one of the hardest lifelong challenges: Self-worth, to love every part of me, the good, the bad, and sometimes the very crazy part of me! Sometimes our life purpose is our life lesson; we have been chosen to incarnate with this gift and to live it to the max! They don’t call it Earth School for nothing…

The only answer in this life is to ‘go through it’! Yes, there are the coaches, the mentors, even the Gurus, to help you, but even these have had to survive and give thanks to each adventure life has given them.
I am a huge believer in the ‘Law of Attraction’. If you think of it as a map by which to live your life, rather than being at the mercy of what you are unwittingly ignoring, or you may not even realise you are creating your life to other people’s belief system.

What lies behind the Law of Attraction is the idea that by changing your thoughts you can manifest what you want or need in your life. Everybody can attract things with their thoughts!

I agree with this to a certain extent. However, I want to let you into a secret - you actually attract from your heart. Scientists (physicists) have debated and hypothesised about the existence of something that I have believed for a long time, which is, amongst other ‘objects’ that the heart contains a powerful ‘magnetism’ called the Magnetic Monopole*.

This acts like the Law of Attraction, but from a sense that, in order to ‘attract what you wish’ you have to ‘feel it and deeply believe you can have it, feel every part of it, and sense that it is within your reach’. This is where you get the chance to dream big. Don’t put any limits on it. Just trust, have faith, and thank the Universe.

* unlike the magnets we learnt about [in school] with two opposite poles - attract/repel - the Magnetic Monopole has only one pole, which attracts. Whilst it has not been observed in action [laboratory conditions], the theory suggests that there is no reason why it shouldn’t exist! Crash course in (particle) physics over! As you were…

This is where your gifts and talents come to the fore and come into play; don’t be afraid to come out of the dark; be willing to craft an identity, a story, of how you want to live, and really think about what you are capable of. This is the key to becoming a powerful creator.

The first step is writing the story – about who you think you are, not what others think you ought to be.
Start to write a story that helps you create what you really want in your life, to recognise and celebrate your gifts and talents.

Not everyone makes their wishes and dreams their reality; it takes drive and staying power. This is where your heart comes into play, not your mind as all the mind does is add to the confusion, and cause doubt and questions.

The difference between a wish and a dream is measured by the ‘quality of belief’ that you harness around allowing your experience to manifest into your dreams.

If you are struggling to really know who you are, questioning your lovability, feeling powerless to make your dream a reality, letting fear rule your choices, doubting your values, allowing others to speak for you, not putting those all-important boundaries in place, saying ‘yes’ when you really want to say ‘no’...By becoming creative, having fun, revisiting your childhood dreams, then you will create your wish to manifest.

Remember. Only you have the power to stand there, become the person you were born to be.

Be brave ~ Be unstoppable ~ Shout out loud...


If you have enjoyed reading this, found it helpful, and would like to know more, please contact me at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

Lots of Love

Debbie xx

P.S. if you want to know your life’s soul purpose then click on the link from my new website and I will send you a copy of your Unique Energy Blueprint.

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